About a year ago, I was due to have my cataracts removed and was incredibly hopeful that my vision may improve slightly, or at least crisp up a bit. I had to cancel the surgery because our insurance won’t pay for anything relating to a pre-existing condition, for 5 years. I still have more than 3 years to go, so I decided to get new glasses. We found a lovely optical shop in town with lots of lovely frames, so I decided to treat myself and replace all of my cheap frames. It’s been a long time since I had really nice glasses.
Of course the whole process began with an eye exam. The optician was great and taught me some new things. She tested my eye muscles (a first for me) and discovered my eyes are being over worked because the muscles just don’t want to cooperate. She recommended some special lenses that would hopefully help my eyes feel less tired from prolonged periods on the computer. She also tested my reading vision, and for the first time, reading glasses were recommended. I got very hopeful that maybe reading glasses would help me do something I haven’t been able to do in years, read a real book. I can read a lot of poetry books because the fonts are often a bit bigger and the lines spaced further apart, but I can’t read novels or short stories at all; the lines blur and meld and words often disappear altogether. It has been one of the heaviest losses for me as my vision has changed. I actually got a little emotional in the optician’s office, but she did warn me that the glasses may not help.
I got my distance and computer glasses back first. The new distance prescription is working great, but I am still trying to figure out if the prism lens is making a difference with the computer glasses; sometimes the adjustment period with new glasses can be a bit of a trial. I did adjust the font size on my computer to one smaller, so that is probably a good sign.
Today, I picked up my reading glasses. The frames are super cute, but I still can’t read a book. I suppose the words are staying a bit more still, but I can’t make out a single one. At least the time waiting for the glasses to be made lessened my hope and excitement about a good outcome. Nothing got worse. It’s all still the same and I still have my kindle.
I also had a visual field test and an OCT (optical coherence tomography) scan. I don’t know why, but I didn’t ask about my visual field test results; I suppose it doesn’t really matter as I know my visual field is greatly diminished. The results of the OCT were offered without me asking. In both eyes I have an epiretinal membrane (like a cataract, they can cause problems with central vision), and in one the membrane is apparently pulling on my macula. It may be that it was this way when I saw the cataract surgeon, but if it is a new development, I will need to see another specialist to determine if I need surgery. This surgery I wouldn’t be able to put off. My central vision is good for someone with RP, but the fact that my useable vision is being double teamed by cataracts and epiretinal membranes, is a bit upsetting.
Focusing on red lights and green x’s and holding my eyes open to be assaulted by super bright lights, has left me in pain, exhausted, and honestly, feeling a bit defeated. It sounds crazy, but I am so used to living with RP that I sometimes forget I have it, forget the gravity of it. Days like today are a reminder that I am broken and can’t ever be repaired.
August 23, 2022 at 2:41 pm
Hang in there, Susan. Never say never. Think of what all you have achieved despite the problems with your vision. Keep the faith and live each day as it comes. Things can change at any second for the better. 🙂
August 23, 2022 at 3:31 pm
It’s so true, Terveen; I guess I sometimes need reminding. Thank you!
August 23, 2022 at 5:15 pm
that awful word like potential prexsisiting
such greedy avarice suzy
my late father was both color blind and legally blind
i too had two cataracts and after their removal
i lost my glasses which i had worn since fourth grade
my wishes for you and jimmy
remember the main, the alamo and dawn dunn
ty!
August 23, 2022 at 5:27 pm
Thank you, John! You give me hope!
August 23, 2022 at 5:28 pm
just words suzi. glad to see you around more often so to speak. brings a smile to my countenance
August 23, 2022 at 5:57 pm
Me too, John!!!!
August 27, 2022 at 5:26 pm
I understand the feeling of defeat. I too rely mostly on Kindle for reading, as my vision doesn’t allow for books. In fact, I can see the lines a little better without my reading glasses.
But it’s true you have achieved so much you are an inspiration to us all. Remember you have many friends who look up to you and love you 💗
August 27, 2022 at 5:57 pm
Oh B, I had no idea you had trouble with your reading vision. I feel like such a fool that I didn’t know. I am so sorry. You are, as ever, so kind and generous to me. I truly admire you, more than you know. xoxo
August 28, 2022 at 9:51 am
I never said, so how could you know? No need to feel bad about it. I ve had a combination of astigmatism and myopia since I was 12, and now I also have cataract
I ve noticed I can’t read most books, and also I can’t see very well at night now. I should go check myself again soon.
Thank you for your beautiful words
Love you 💗
August 28, 2022 at 9:56 am
So much Love to you, B!!!!
September 1, 2022 at 4:36 pm
Aren’t we all, in one way or another?
(Much love to you. You don’t have to see it. Just feel it.)
September 1, 2022 at 6:19 pm
Love and Hugs to you, Gorgeous Lady!
September 13, 2022 at 1:26 pm
Still doesn’t prevent you from writing though
September 13, 2022 at 4:46 pm
Ture! It’s all the crap in my mind that prevents me from that! Ha! I hope you are well, my friend. I need to read your most recent post. I feel like I have been under a rock for years.